Monday, February 29, 2016

Those who do not learn from history are doomed to really screw it up.

(Image taken by me.)


The Revolution won't be starting in Saratoga.

I don't know when this blow to the fascist 'Private No Parking' sign was hoisted up the flag pole of freedom, but I salute the plucky spirit of our local rebel. Next time, though, please remember to research the source material. There's this thing called Google. And don't tag other people's stuff. Not cool. Just saying.

Snapping this pic did, however, make me remember two nods of my own to Alan Moore, including the Catholic revolutionary inspired character whom the comic world refers simply as V.

V for Ven-Stupid. Alan Moore in one line changed my younger self's view of anarchy by pointing out the difference between anarchy and chaos. It cannot be understated how much they are NOT the same. I cringe when I see the V mask worn by people who don't understand that, nor want to.

Watchmen and Reagan. Part Watchmen movie review and part history lesson staring Ronald Reagan in his final role.

There's so much political crap falling from the sky nowadays (from both sides) how could I NOT think about V for Vendetta or Watchmen, you know? If you've read the graphic novels you know what I mean.


Sunday, February 14, 2016

Self Defense starts with SELF for a reason





A fellow martial artist and I were discussing self-defense recently when the conversation turned to a point often lost in the sea of print and online self-defense information. 


One of several ways pop culture and media outlets try to capture our attention, page views, and advertising clicks is by playing upon our instinctive fear of violence and the unknown. “If it bleeds, it leads.” as the old saying goes. Random acts of violence are headlined alongside domestic and social tragedies as if they were equal partners in the evils of the world. However, the odds of falling prey to a stranger are low compared to the threats in our own social circles. 


You probably already know the person most likely to harm you.


Let me repeat that.


You probably already know the person most likely to harm you. 


If you pay attention to crime statistics and victim profile data then this is likely not new to you, though perhaps you’ve never thought about in these blunt terms. For those who don’t, my statement above applies to men and women and children. Yup. Everyone. Here are just two of the search strings I used when gathering data to prove my statement. Normally I would weed out older data, but in this case an unbroken string of survey data reinforces my point


One. “percentage of murder victims who know their killer”


The results of the first page of Yahoo’s engine, for example, contained the following:

Study says victimsknow their killers -...


Where the relationship could be determined, 92 percent of black females killed by males in single victim/single offender incidents knew their killers (406 of 442)


ExpandedHomicide Data - Crime in the United...


In 2009, 24.2 percent of victims were slain by family members; 53.8 percent were killed by someone they knew (acquaintance, neighbor, friend, boyfriend, etc.).


KBI database:Most homicide victims know their ...


Smith and Jones said it isn’t a shock that data shows most homicide victims are acquainted with their killer. The data shows suspects during the seven-year time were boyfriends, girlfriends, friends, family members, roommates, siblings, parents, children, in-laws, ex-spouse, neighbor and children of spouses.


80%of victims know their killers | IOL (this one is from Durban, South Africa)


Experts and police agree you are more likely to be killed by your spouse, a relative, acquaintance, employee or business partner than by a stranger in a random act of crime.



Two. “percentage of rape victims who know their rapist”


The first page results of Google, for example, yielded:

The Offenders - Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network


-      Approximately 4/5 of rapes were committed by someone known to the victim

Sexual Assault Reports, Laws | Rape Statistics


-      Approximately 66% of rape victims know their assailant

List of Rape Myths - University of Minnesota Duluth


-      Myth: Sexual assault usually occurs between strangers.

-      Fact: By some estimates, over 70% of rape victims know their attackers. The rapist may be a relative, friend, co-worker, date or other acquaintance.


Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, Child Abuse Statistics


-1 in 4 women and 1 out of 6 men are sexually abused in their lifetime; Department of Justice)


-In 8 out of 10 rape cases, the victim knows the attacker; (Department of Justice)



I was going to list other strings and other crimes, such as child abuse, domestic abuse, and child abductions, but the results were the same with only changes in the ‘amount of majority’ the studies found. And reading the case studies were simply too hard. In the name of full disclosure, I can’t stomach researching these topics very long. Just like you I have friends and family who have victimized. Yeah, this is a personal topic. I get too mad and want to lash out. You may know the feeling.


So, am I advocating paranoia and distrust? Not at all. 


I am encouraging YOU, gentle reader, to take a close look at who you let into your life and who is around you, especially in potentially vulnerable situations like when you are going to drink or take drugs. I am asking YOU to make use of your ability to evaluate, judge, and take action in order to reduce the opening a predator might take advantage of. Seek the help of professionals and contact the authorities if your situation is not safe. I am saying YOU have Value and you have the Right to adopt a self-defense mindset. I encourage physical training of course (I am a martial artist, after all) but situational awareness, educating yourself on where and how threats typically come from, and the willingness to TRUST YOUR GUT will protect you far more than any punch or hold break. 


Yes, the world can be dangerous, but that doesn’t mean we cannot take action, make choices, and learn to use our gifts to build as happy and as a calm life as we can. Plus...  
 
                                           I'm just saying...   

*My thanks to the creators of the above memes, whomever they are. 

Thursday, February 4, 2016

My memes mostly come at night. Mostly.

Just for fun, enjoy this tasty sampling of memes with your choice of an imaginary side dish. Mmmm...hot and fresh from the Strongarm Lab kitchen.

The images for Creepy Bacon, Protest Sign, Golden Shower, are Special Occasions are originals taken by me. Feel free to share their meme forms.




Creeper Bacon | Okay, bacon. | Now you're starting to creep me out. | image tagged in funny,demotivationals,bacon,creeper | made w/ Imgflip demotivational maker


Awesome Shatner | YOU MAY BE AWESOME BUT YOU'LL NEVER BE WILLIAM SHATNER STANDING ON A MOTORCYCLE WITHOUT A SHIRT ON SHOOTING A BOW AND ARROW AWESOME | image tagged in awesome shatner,awesome,william shatner | made w/ Imgflip meme maker


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Loosing battle.  | I've seen these protest signs for years. | Honestly, I don't think they're working. | image tagged in funny,demotivationals,protest,signs | made w/ Imgflip demotivational maker


When you don't want truth in advertising.  | FIREWORKS! YAY! | Oh..er...on second thought no thanks. | image tagged in funny,demotivationals,fireworks,bad product names,double meanings | made w/ Imgflip demotivational maker




That look...


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